Izzy1234 And I got really mad, saying that I felt like she used me, I felt like a two-year crutch. Stalks the house, finds doors locked, calls, comes by unannounced, multiple times per day, dont care what, when, how or who. I just always tell him the same thing. He needs to set her straight. & for anyone that takes this comment seriouslywhy??? But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). I say be very, very careful. Everyone says I have to leave him alone but I really want to help. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. What else is new, huh? She started crying some more, saying that she knows that no one will ever treat her better than I did. This is an act of stalking. Izzy1234 Show Less. ._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4{width:100%}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA{display:none}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA,._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:block}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:none} I've already told her that I'm not going to chase after her. What really rubs me about this situation is this. My ex showed up at my house unannounced - wow bad idea for him. Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. Truth About Cell Phones In A Relationship, We broke up because he has depression but he has already reached out, She dumped me and found someone new, 10 months later its gotten very complicated. I dont even do that to my own mother . Very worried. I don't like unexpected visitors anyway, but an ex??? I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. Just imagine if you were d Turns out he left. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. Because it certainly isn't because he's making you happy. As the title is an important trait to have a good minute after. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. In addition, attorneys often put orders against harassment in divorce, custody and visitation judgments, which may also be violated by showing up unannounced at the other party's home. Call the police and make a complaint. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they showed up. 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I dont know if he woulda showed up just to say nasty things. We also really wouldnt want him texting and driving, cell phone usage near schools is also illegal and bc you know the schedule, you can always offer reassurance if shes unable to reach him. I told her. She recorded the interaction on TikTok which was viewed over 1.1 million times. Me: Look you're not over it..you told me that last night and I can just tell..I honestly don't even know you anymore..I'm out all of the time now..If you see me out, come say hi and we'll see what happens. This is a tough call dude. What else is new, huh? Nothing ever seems cut and dry in this department. She obviously has some issues to work out on h File it as a stalking incident. Commiserate with others in similar situations, celebrate your wins, and hang out with people who just get it. I wouldn't recommend it if that is on your mind. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By Its such a sad situation. Share this conversation. I guess I put myself in the position of the ex; if I'd broken up with someone and was moving on, and he showed up at my house, I'd be annoyed, at the very least. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. Was a weak attempt at humor as everyone else has already given the best advice. Tjeesh. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. These visits always Showing Up At Ex Boyfriend's House: Here are 5 possible reactions that you might get from her if you knock on her door: He chooses not to exercise his custody time being a no. My SO is upset with me over this decision. She has a lot of issues to work on and you don't want to go there, nor can you help her out. I truly love her I mean we overcame huge hurdles to be together. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}.icon._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;vertical-align:middle;padding-right:8px}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} What would she have done if you showed up unannounced like that and in that form? There's also a no contact order against him yet he just pulled up ? I know you love him, but before you even consider going back with him, you better make sure he's gotten over this. But I do love her anymore and just deal with this. She left crying at one point, saying that she just couldn't take it. I say stay away for your own mental sanity. 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She brought up the fact that when we first started dating, she wasn't 100% over her ex(granted we started to date 6 months after they broke up). It may or may not work, but its atleast a more passive approach to someone HC & also allows you to kind of assert your position in their lives - which I have found is important considering they often live in denial. I have never gone to his work either. He mentioned names Id never heard of. ._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa{margin-top:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._3EpRuHW1VpLFcj-lugsvP_{color:inherit}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa svg._31U86fGhtxsxdGmOUf3KOM{color:inherit;fill:inherit;padding-right:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._2mk9m3mkUAeEGtGQLNCVsJ{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;color:inherit} ._3oeM4kc-2-4z-A0RTQLg0I{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between} ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} I know you love him and I know how painful it can be for you when you just want to be with him but right now you need to work on yourself and leave him to come to you. It's like she can't be happy for herself so she has to let someone else down. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By Granted, I made a few mistakes with our interaction last night, but hey, I was caught way off guard. Even if the claims arent too serious, you may not find about an investigation until a CPSsocial worker arrives. In some cases, individuals do it out of anger or spite. Who came up with this agreement? Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. the night I caught her she had said"I would be a good wife to you" all emotional. Anyone reading my previous threads would know that my ex hates me and says he never wants to see me again. 9 days later and as of last night we are officially back together and trying this thing again. I do this too. It seems like he is testing himself to see how his emotions will be when he meets you. Just to add too- I've been ignoring her weekly texts for roughly the last six weeks. Even though I've been dating and enjoying the company of other women for the last month or so, my ex still has some control over me. It seems like the game playing stage is over and done with by now. He showed up to my house unannounced the next day to repeat what we had already discussed. Showing up at ex house unannounced If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. So I was just minding my own damn business last night and this happened Last night, I was sitting on my couch around 10pm, watching TV. Remember that OP is a human being and their needs are first and foremost on this sub. She recently, before this incident, approached me about having a talk. I do not remember making that agreement. That happened more than once. I did a week after (not months). It sucks and hurts a lot, but I'm learning a lot about myself and the relationship these last few weeks. I (m/28) popped up last night at my exs house unannounced to collect a phone I got for her because her old phone was completely fucked under the Press J to jump to the feed. So at around 8 pm she showed up and invited herself into our house. He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. She is blocked from everything possible . This is a tough call dude. Because it's what you're used to? Do you think he will ever want me back if I continue to give him space? Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By We rely on the community to alert us to comments and posts not made in good faith. My mom forgot me once as a child. It looks like the finality of your break up finally hit her like a ton of bricks and she came running back to you. All four month probably just hit her all at once. Unless the ex invites you, then no, I wouldn't do it. Who knows though. By I havent been in contact with her for a month straight. Let it slide, because if it happened once it certainly bound to happen again at once point and you guys are not going to be the same peeps as you were prevously. I would also suggest installing a camera or multiple cameras. Unannouncedvisits are very common in cases with extreme or violent allegations. .FIYolDqalszTnjjNfThfT{max-width:256px;white-space:normal;text-align:center} It's my ex-girlfriend. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By Remember its his day for pick up. So frustrating. She obviously has some issues to work out on her part though and maybe last night was the first step for her in doing that? Don't do it. He insists that we promised eachother but all I remember is him saying he did not want a relationship. Ignore the following text - it's meant for search engines: And even if they decide it's not like things have gotten more extreme in his job. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. Was completely inappropriate. I should have said I was bus I don't mean going over their house a day or week after the breakup. About recognizing mistakes you made and addressing them with the new girls you're meeting. I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. What gives her the right to do something like that man? Ice queen I understand this. Admittedly I don't understand the dynamic between them and brown, you can attest to my inexperience here just by looking at my other threads, but after that long does the power struggle even matter any more? That's the only reason why you came over? Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. Just wanted you to know." Sometimes it's ge Kartoff Im constantly trying not to get my hopes up but I still do Its also a constant battle to stay NC especially after today. It's just not a good idea. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. Don't let it get to you, and do your fellow stepparents a solid and give them an upvote. Unfortunately, I have a feeling this isn't going to be the last time I've heard from her. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. Keep a record of each incident where you encounter (or even notice him) nearby. Now I do and its partially because of the break up(got a great new job) so here I am. Continue with Recommended Cookies, By She tells me that it was equally as hard for her and she kept pushing me away because she knew that she couldn't face me. We haven't had a real conversation in months. Call the police. Yes the showing up unannounced is a bad sign! He says I must have slept with them all. She feels guilty (mentioned hurting you; you aren't over it). Are you interested in getting back with him after the I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. I still love him so much I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. I've never done it, and I'd never even think of doing it. ._12xlue8dQ1odPw1J81FIGQ{display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle} By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Didnt say much. I dont know why he came this morning. Something triggered this emotional reaction from her. She said that she never knew what it was like to be alone and she's learning that now. It's frustrating for a true app not fake help me figure out when things got even better. And this is torture. I was very worried. it doesnt matter I still love her and i understand why she did it. 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